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Why You Should Not Post Your Accident News On Social Media?

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"Baat  Bigdi  Hai Is Qadar..Dil Hain  Toota, Toote Hain Hum...Aur Ab Gaadi Bhi Toot Gaya".....LOL!!! Yes, I was driving. No, I was not drunk or under any sort of influence. I am not even suicidal. Anyone who has driven under stress knows that missing a blind spot is common. Because of this many drivers can encounter terrible accidents on road causing risks to their own lives and the lives of other people. Something similar happened in my case a couple of weeks ago. I hit a concrete pillar. While nothing happened to the pillar, my car got smashed. Was I speeding? No, but it's concrete versus metal, you see. Luckily the car's automatic brakes managed to get me a complete stop but by then the damage was already done. Why I didn't post this incident on social media? Medical posts generate conversations. They don’t entertain or amuse or even educate or inform others. They’re simply a sign of desperation, a need for attention, a craving for people to comment with  “Get

My Long Distance BF Broke Up With Me Because I Refused To Send Him Nudes- What Should I Do Now?

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A friend asked me: I met this guy on online and we have been chatting for the past two months. He is married but his marriage is going through a rough time. He seemed nice and very charming and I instantly got attracted to him.  It all started with a very healthy friendship until one day he confessed his love for me. He said that when the time comes, he is ready to leave his wife and child for me and marry me and until then we should chat so we can understand each other very well. Everything was going great until recently he pressurized me to send him nude pictures of myself to him. I said NO because I do not want to and I am not going to. He broke up with me.  Here are the recent accusations that he has made towards me and my replies to him: BF: I am fed up with your conditions. Me: When we started chatting, you said everything will be mutual and no one will force the other to do anything that they are not comfortable doing. You are adding this new condition now. That's breac

Sexting With A Married Person: Is It Cheating?

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Yes, it is cheating if you are sexting with someone other than your significant other or your committed partner! While many of you may not agree with me because you are not practically doing anything in reality. I agree with it to some extent especially if you are sexting with someone you are committed to a relationship or you are casually seeing someone and aren't committed in a relationship then maybe it is not cheating. However, if you are committed to a relationship, then it is cheating, buddy!  My friend recently met this guy on a social media app and started talking to him. His great sense of humor immediately caught her attention. After a few interactions, this guy asked her,  "What is your viewpoint on lovemaking. You are married, right? So, that makes you experienced in this regard."  This was a first warning sign and she should have cut the conversation then and there. Unfortunately, she didn't.  This guy apologized for his behavior and said that

That Fine Line Between True Love or Timepass In Online Dating

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I have recently joined a social networking app and one of my followers has sent me this message,  "I met a woman on this app and we started dating each other a month ago. I even got naked on camera for her. However, when I told her that I am seriously in love with her, she said that she is married and after that, she has blocked me on the app's messenger. I still love her and I am clueless about how she could do this to me?" Another follower said,  "I am married and have a child. I don't have a good married life and my wife and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for the past two years. In the past seven years, I couldn't recognize my wife very well. " In the above examples, it is possible that you  believe  their story and develop sympathy for such a person that might eventually translate into falling in love. CAUTION!!  I don't know if the first guy was lying or not as I have no idea about his real identity. However, I was able to tr